via Julie Miller
September 3, 2013
It is well understood that most dear souls prefer to live within their comfort zones in all their aspects each and every day. Most of the time the realization of having comfort zones in more than one area of your everyday life goes unnoticed. If you ever take the time to look at all the comfort zones you live within such as your health, financial status, and within your relationships you will discover behind them there are a few limiting beliefs that are firmly placed. Understand dear ones, that limiting beliefs are boundaries regarding your abilities which you have been influenced to feel as being true. Your limiting beliefs also support your comfort zones because they give you a feeling of safety. If you take a brave step outside some of your comfort zones and expand these areas that have been restricting by working on improving your emotional health you will begin to attract more successful outcomes in other areas of your life.
Your current life illustrates which
comfort zones you have worked with and some of your comfort zones are
unconscious, meaning they are hidden from your awareness. The comfort zones you
have set out for yourself even unconsciously you have been placed where they
are for your own ease and comfort and within the boundaries of your comfort
zones you have developed techniques and systems on how to seek balance in your
life while remaining within the safety of your comfort zones. Your comfort
zones dear ones is a place where you feel most at home and comfortable, where
no risk is involved and there are no growing pains felt from stretching beyond
these invisible perimeters.
To question yourself in regards to
knowing if you live within comfort zones is by being able to identify if you
have brought temporary or permanent change to your emotional, financial or
physical environment. When you have expanded your comfort zones effectively and
positively, your changes will come spontaneously and they will remain
permanently. When you have only applied quick cover-ups to areas that really
need an honest look-over and change, on appearance your quick-fix attempt to
what needed improvement will appear sharper and improved but this cover-up will
not be permanent nor will it provide automatic changes. The quick fixer upper
approach works on a temporary basis but has no long term affect and slowly the
corrections you tried to make by covering them up slowly rises back up and
sometimes the damage has grown significantly. If you look at your life now,
your total life dear ones, do you feel disappointment by some of your changes
that you have brought that were only temporary. It can feel frustrating to see
problems resurface when you thought you had worked them out.
Learning how to identify and
increase the boundaries of your comfort zones does require a little work, but
we remind you dear ones the outcome is worth your effort especially if you
truly want to bring long lasting change. We understand that it is hard making
decisions and choices because some of them cause you to struggle with them for
hours that can easily lead into days whereas other choices are done so easily
and quickly. It makes little difference if the choice you are currently facing
is easy or difficult, you still have to take the action and choose. And
depending on what you choose you will either remain within the comfort zones
you have established or you will expand them even by a little.
Taking affirmative action is hard.
It requires you to think of all the pros and cons of what your choice will
bring as your choices are also your responsibility. When you increase your
comfort zones you have made choices that were outside of these zones, you have
pursued something you have not done before or really thought of.
Be gentle with yourself when you are
moving beyond your comfort zones because where you are stepping is beyond the
safety net you have created. When you begin to step into new areas from the
choices and decisions you made understand you may feel a certain amount of
discomfort. You will feel a new elevation of stress until the discomfort eases
off and you come to trust where you have stepped into. The discomfort you may
feel when you first step beyond your comfort zones can be used as motivation to
help you to continue to move forward.
Many dear souls do prefer to remain
within their comfort zones, they avoid taking risks or trying new things and
many are truly happy living their life this way. But dear ones if you want to
truly change or grow, you will have to deal with a little discomfort as your
comfort zones grow and expand to accommodate the growth you are going to
attain.
As you step forward into new and exciting
areas that were one time unknown remember to be mindful of your own discomfort.
Try to realize when you first began to feel the discomfort your new changes
brought you. What did you feel? Did you feel queasy or the flutter of
butterflies in your stomach during the time you contemplated taking affirmative
action into a new direction? Or did new anxiety find its way to you after you
have made your big decision? It is important to observe your findings because
through them you are able to know much more of yourself and you discover ways
on how to respond to what you are feeling as you move through your changes.
When you are able to really feel the
discomfort, we encourage you to describe the feeling and experience. You may
describe your discomfort being felt in the center of your stomach, or you may
describe your fears as reactions to the new and unfamiliar changes. When you
have acknowledged your discomfort and you have described to yourself the
feelings and experiences you can begin moving your attention away from the
feelings you have been undergoing. Instead dear ones, begin to focus on the
goal that your new actions have brought you to attain.
Remember dear ones while going
through the changes to expand your comfort zones it is helpful to be able to envision
yourself taking the required actions that will bring you to what you want to
achieve. Visualize each step going well and you are progressing with ease and
closer to the goal you expanded your comfort zone to achieve. While you are
envisioning yourself moving closer to the goal you wish to achieve, we
encourage you to embrace the good feelings you will feel after successfully
reaching your goal. We wish to remind you dear ones that the comfort zones that
are within you were created to by all your experiences you have had so far.
Give yourself some of your own love
and compassion because many of those changes were difficult and the promise of
success into unknown territory was shaky but you continued to move forward,
some days were harder and more frightening than other days, yet you managed,
you survived and succeeded. When you bring new changes to your life, you will
feel discomfort, you will feel new feelings and emotions but you will be okay.
You are strong, and you have proven already just how adaptable you really are.
Changes are hard, but they have the capacity to bring good once all the fear of
the unknown has melted away.
Discover your inner strength and
unlimited courage when you bring new changes and expand your comfort zones –
you may come to realize that there was a whole other you just waiting to face
those changes and to show the world and most importantly yourself that you are
capable and that you are strong, and the love you have for yourself will carry
you through each step. Believe in yourself dear ones, trust in the choices you
are making and ensure that you follow them through in order to feel the
satisfaction of their completion. You can do anything you want to if you
believe you can.
And so it is…
I AM Archangel Haniel through Julie
Miller
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